Let me share a story from my childhood, a time when I yearned to impress my family and gain their love and approval. Like any child, I craved affection and validation, especially from my mother, until the arrival of my sister changed everything.
Suddenly, it seemed everyone favored her over me. I felt overshadowed, not as smart or capable as she was. The constant comparisons brewed resentment within me, making me doubt my own worthiness. Deep down, I harbored insecurities, believing I wasn’t deserving of love or anything better than what I settled for.
This internal struggle spilled into my relationships, leading me to marry someone who didn’t value me the way I deserved. Despite my outward confidence and accomplishments in public life, I battled with self-doubt and feelings of inadequacy.
It took years of inner work and self-reflection to realize that my worth isn’t tied to external achievements, appearances, or others’ opinions. I am inherently worthy, just as I am. This epiphany transformed my life, allowing me to build a loving family, pursue my passions, and find true happiness.
I understand how easy it is for women to remain trapped in unhealthy relationships or neglect self-care because they doubt their own worth. But I’ve learned that embracing our worthiness is the key to unlocking a fulfilling and joyful life.
If you don’t believe in your own worthiness, no one else will see you as deserving of better treatment. It all begins within you. If you can muster the courage to declare your worth today, everything can transform for you. My dear sister, you are deserving of all the beauty and happiness in this world, including a man who cherishes you, uplifts you, and reveres you like a goddess. Believe in your inherent worth and watch as the world acknowledges and honors it too.
