Do you live like flat-mates with your man?
Do you feel there is no connection between you and him?
Do you beg for more connection in your relationship in every argument and every fight?
Are you a woman whose man does not look forward to coming home?
He sits in his car for hours doing nothing. Or scrolls through his phone?
I have been there.
I know how it feels.
We all need that connection.
Feeling connected to your partner is so fulfilling. It makes us feel loved and valued. It makes us come back home after work.
Do you wonder why He is doing that? I can tell you from my experience and having talked to hundreds of women in the last few years from learning and studying relationships since 2019. Why does your relationship feel so disconnected and loveless? Because he does not feel an emotional connection with you. Because he does not feel emotionally safe around you? Because he is not emotionally intimate with you?
What stops men from engaging with women on an emotional level? What created this emotional disconnection?
Your continuous nagging and questioning.
Your continuous chase around him.
Your dependence on him for your emotional fulfillment?
The more you demand, the further away he goes.
What helps connection build in your relationship?
Most men don’t do it intentionally.
Most men seek emotional connection.
Men are built to work for things they like.
They run after what is not available to them.
So, what can you do to get more connection in your relationship?
Stop picking up his every call and text. You are a busy woman, even if not. Find something to do that keeps you busy.
Stop doing so much for him.
Start saying no in a lovely manner.
Stop asking questions.
Stop fighting and start saying things calmly and kindly without blaming anyone.
He will start wondering about what has happened to you.
When he approaches you, be warm.
Trust the process and do this for 21 days and see the change in his behavior.
He will work for your attention.
He will start valuing you in a way he has never done before.
He will start feeling insecure and will seek your attention.
When he approaches you, be warm.
Do this, sister, and you will see the change in his behavior.
