This morning, I saw a post in a group where a lovely lady shared how she has been suffering in her intimate relationships, one after the other.
We have all been through this. It is painful and it hurts. I was in a toxic marriage and have been out for 5 years.
I was fighting for a man’s love, to be heard, to be valued by him. I was looking for validation from him, while he was looking for respect, validation, and trust.
I had no idea how to give those things. I gave him gifts and cooked for him, and I also invested in the relationship to impress him so he could give back.
It didn’t work because we were a misfit. We didn’t have good relationship role models in our lives; we did what our parents did.
So, being someone who loves to thrive, I left. I wanted love and to be happy, and I attracted it.
I discovered so much about myself.
I still have scars from my past, and I’m okay with that because they are the lessons I needed to learn to be where I am now.
I recently remarried a wonderful man who loves me to death. He’s called the best father by my son, a man who knows my imperfections and still feels like he’s married to the hottest woman on the planet.
This didn’t happen by chance. I took action. I embraced myself, learned to accept myself, and invested money and time because I am my priority. I’m here on this planet to be happy, to be the queen, not a slave girl.
Many of you are still suffering because your fears are bigger than your self-love. Choose yourself, and the world will choose you.
Take action. Let’s connect if you would like to transform your love life.
