How to deselect men in dating?

These days most women I meet complain that there are no good men out there. The pool is ridiculously small. Dating is demanding work. I am happy to be single. Men are so much work.

I hear them, and it is true for people who do not how to deselect men. How can you know after 3 dates if these men are aligned with you? How do you know if a man has a long-term plan for you?

let me tell you some harsh truths.


In the Dating world, nobody owns anything to anyone. How harsh it sounds but it is reality.
Love is a free will. Women drop men when they do not feel anything for them, and so do men.

If you meet a man once and that feels good and you have all these butterflies in your tummy and you are already dreaming of getting married to him and he does not ask you for another date or ghost you, you cannot blame him because he did not feel inspired to do that. It is a free world, and it is ok.

If he walks out on you after on-and-off dating like you never existed, you cannot stop him as You can control a man or force a man to love you. This is who men are and there is no science to change their biology. You cannot blame someone for being who they are.

Women fall in love way faster than men. We all have done that. I have done that too. We need to slow down to get to know that man and keep a watch for if his words meet his actions.

At the same time, Dating various men at the same time not investing too much into anyone, and letting the best men win strategy works very well.

Strategy, yes It’s a set of techniques that keeps you away from being attached to men who do not have a long-term plan for you. I can teach you how to not waste time on men who are not there for a long-term relationship. I can teach you to be powerful and safe in the relationship. How can you inspire a man to adore you and love with all your imperfections?

If you want to learn how to get from dating to being engaged to a man who loves you, values and moves mountains for you send me a message.

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